About The Book

  • Have you repeatedly tried and failed to quit pornography?
  • Are you tired of the guilt and shame?
  • Has porn wreaked havoc in your marriage?

Pornography is a rapidly growing epidemic responsible for broken marriages, wrecked lives, and ruined careers.

This compelling and practical book will “crack the code” of how porn hijacks your “3 Brains.” It deals with the core issues driving you to look at porn (it’s not just lust), and unveils a blueprint for restoring your marriage.

You will see how God designed us to connect with Himself and with each other, and how this connection is a powerful antidote to porn’s seduction.

For over 18 years, I have been helping men and couples find freedom from porn. Crack the cover to learn practical tips and proven strategies you can implement today. This easy-to-read guide contains everything you need to crush porn’s grip and repair your marriage.

If you only apply 10% of what you read, you will see significant changes in your battle with porn. Read the first two chapters – if it isn’t transforming then put it down. I’m betting you won’t be able to.


“Carl and Christ helped save our marriage. Working with Carl gave my wife and I the tools to better love each other. When we first met Carl my wife was drowning in pain. We are now closer than we’ve ever been and this closeness is running over to improve our whole family.  Carl has been a great guide to reveal what Christ wants for us. Thanks, Carl.”

“I have learned that my pornography addiction is an escapism tool that I have been implementing for over half of my life. We have been able to root out the deeper issues, and I have learned that the way I feel about myself is much worse than how Jesus feels about me. I like how Jesus feels about me better.”

“I would recommend this book to anyone wanting to know more about the subject, someone struggling with the addiction and their spouse/significant other for a better understanding of the addiction.”